Alas, being single myself, I wondered to myself, “does being smart make it harder to find love? I’m not saying that if you’re in love that you are stupid. Apply that mentality to a relationship and you get situations where smarter people are quicker to duck out of a relationship at the first sign of trouble.If experience is the best teacher, then the smartest people will rely on experience to guide them. Alex Benzer is primarily known as a guy who helps other guys get women.
There's more to a partner than sex organs that go well together, and smart people are all too aware of the fact. They wonder about their future, the best way to cultivate romance, and are obsessed with finding the right person. As a result, they sometimes take things a little too slow and have trouble committing. It's not just that smart people are intimidating to dumb-dumbs, but to other intelligent people as well.
Smart people are so dead set on finding the right partner that they'll abstain all together if necessary. They just know the brutal truth is that most relationships won't work out.
You’re intelligence and dedication to your studies and extra-curriculars was rewarded when you into a good college, when you got a good degree, a good job, promotions and raises, etc – so you’re an extremely eligible bachelor and you should now be rewarded with love, affection, and sex, right? I would also add that because of the focus on achievement, lack of focus on relationships, and extreme cautioning from parents and teachers about things that could “distract” or get you in “trouble,” there’s often a large build up of sexual shame that has to be dealt with.
This goes back to being too analytical and thinking too much.
People born in January are hard workers with strong opinions and you're not afraid to let people know what you think.
They tend to be stubborn and don't enjoy being managed.
They have a harder time opening up because that analytical brain never stops reflecting back on past situations where they opened up to someone, and ultimately got hurt in the process.
For this reason, other people assume the person is cold or distant, two characteristics no one wants in a partner.
Highly intelligent people think analytically, even when it comes to things like relationships.
Therefore, intelligent people realize that being alone is better than being with the wrong person. So, in essence, most really smart people are single because they want to be.
The sharper people in this world are often keenly aware of the danger in any given situation, and that includes dating.