At the same time, I have to admit that I have not dated Israeli girls, I have only dated Jewish girls living in the Diaspora (i.e. I DO have a bunch of Israeli friends though (both guys and girls), and so I have a very good idea of what they are like.
After a few dates, sit down to discuss your thoughts on relationships, commitment, and how you’d define where you currently are — and where you might be headed. Be transparent about your own spending habits and talk about your respective relationships with money. Does he secretly dream of starting his own business?
It can be hard to assess how someone deals with conflict until you’ve had your first fight, but discussing previous conflicts and their subsequent resolutions can help you both understand how each of you deals with arguments. You don’t need to disclose financial details early on in a relationship, but be aware of how you both approach payday, splurges and saving for a rainy day. Can you become your partner’s greatest cheerleader and champion? Is parenthood, financial success, creative pursuits or travel on the wish list?
If you live outside Israel you have to search a lot more as Jews are obviously much less common.
Here are two of the best ways to meet Jewish girls when living outside Israel: You can definitely meet Jewish girls online (actually you can meet Israeli girls online too).
Sure, you’re having a great time together a few times a month, but do you really know where you stand, relationship-wise? As conflict is an unavoidable part of life, discovering how your date deals with it is an important part of getting to know him/her better. If your date needs a night on the couch to feel energized and rejuvenated, try to respect that, too. How does your date make decisions regarding big-ticket items?
Is one of you hoping it will turn into marriage and kids while the other is commitment-phobic and enjoys seeing more than one person at a time? Money and sex are two driving forces behind divorce.
So what is this Yankee girl going to tell you about dating a Jamaican.
And in my short life, there are few things I’ve picked up when it comes to relationship dynamics.
So you’re getting this from as close to the “horse’s mouth” as you can get.
Before I start, let me first tell you that the advice you’re gonna get on this page is from an actual Jewish guy who has dated numerous Jewish girls (not too many but enough to have something to say ;-D).
With that said, I’m going to provide 1) tips on finding and meeting Jewish girls (which you can then date) and then 2) actual dating and relationship tips.